On the heels of a break-up, I booked a solo trip to go hiking in New Zealand. I needed a fresh start, a break from my life as a couple – something to lift me out of my depressed state, which felt like a tidal wave engulfing me. My career had stalled, my relationship was over, and half of my thirties . . .
Dating Apps are Offering Video Features – Will They Help?
Ever since Tinder entered the online dating scene, replacing desktop browsing with its game-like swiping, people have been eager to check it out. In fact, online daters have tripled since 2013, because dating apps like Tinder became a thing. Now, it seems other dating apps are looking for the . . .
Learning the Art of Confrontation as a People-Pleaser
Mastering the art of confrontation has eluded me for years. The art of confrontation has eluded me for years. I can't describe how hard it is for me. The physical effect it has on me. My mouth goes dry, my throat tightens, I feel my voice shake. I don't mean normal, daily confrontation (like when . . .
How to Fall In Love With Anyone
The New York Times Modern Love column is one of my favs. It offers a range of fascinating, nuanced stories of regular folks' journeys falling in and out of love. Stories that are messy, complicated, heartfelt, and emotional - much like dating itself. And one of the most popular essays ever published . . .
Are vices sexy in online dating?
When you're writing your online dating profile, are there some things you just kind of....omit? Like how much you indulge in smoking, drinking, or the occasional edible? We all have vices, but some seem to be more acceptable than others, especially when you're dating. We all hide . . .
Going Through a Digital Breakup: Your Ex and Social Media
It would be nice to break up with someone and completely erase them from our memories - a la Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. But we all know how well that strategy turned out. It's hard to let go of an ex. You can't just avoid them - they are always around, digitally speaking. How often do . . .
