Yes, we’re in the midst of summer, which means hot days, warm nights, lots of alcohol and lots of potential for summer flings! Are you rolling your eyes right now? Maybe you’re sick of flings or flirtations that lead nowhere? Maybe instead of looking for the hot, unavailable guy you want to try something different. No more games. Maybe you want a real relationship...
I’m not a fan of The Rules as I’ve stated in numerous blog posts. I don’t think the way to separate yourself from the rest of the crowd or to win over a man’s affection lies in how well you’re able to pull one over on him, or try to take control. Instead, I’m all about honesty, communication, and mutual respect. And it seems that relationship expert Rori Raye agrees with me – and spells it out in her new ebook Have the Relationship You Want.
I like her style and what she says about relationships. Basically, that we (especially women) need to let go of controlling everything. We think “if he just did this” or “if he only could change that,” then we’d be happy. Not so much. You see, the only thing you can control is yourself, the way you react to and engage with a guy.
Her book delves into the particulars of developing a good relationship, with lots of exercises that aren’t pro and con lists that you find in some relationship books. She makes you visualize and really feel what it is you want, instead of making that list that sounds good on paper of what you think a relationship looks like. And the best part? She teaches you – step by step – how to let go of your need to control everything. Because really relationship-building is all about vulnerability, and tearing down those walls that keep us from loving someone else.
Before I go on and on, to learn more tips on having the relationship you want subscribe to Rori’s free e-newsletter. You’ll discover a whole new way to relate to a man – from the moment you meet him, all the way through commitment and marriage – so that you finally have the secure, loving, lasting relationship you’ve always wanted.
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About Kelly Seal
Kelly is a freelance writer based in Los Angeles, CA. She blogs about dating, relationships, personal growth and what "healthy living" means to her. You can follow her on Google+, Twitter @kellyseal or through her website www.kellyseal.com.
keep up the good blogging