I like change. Always have. I changed majors in college from music to psychology to business to accounting to anthropology. I moved cities four times before I was 31, and I'd lived in a total of 9 apartments by then, too. I changed jobs, even industries like they were flavors at Cold Stone. I won't . . .
Do we share too much?
I've always been a private person, which sounds funny because I write a blog. But I am. I've never been one to spill my secrets, share my angst, or otherwise reveal too much unless I know and trust you. I don't crave the spotlight. I just like to write. There have been a few articles lately on . . .
On second acts, and doing what you want to do
A quote from the beginning of one of my favorite books, Second Acts: "Often people attempt to live their lives backwards: they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they really want so that they will be happier. The way it actually works is the reverse. You must . . .
On hoarding and love
I'm sitting next to a woman at my local coffeeshop. I'm trying to write, but it's a little hard to stop looking over at her. She's dressed in a long brown bathrobe, hair pulled back in a tight bun. She shuffles in her black slippers. She has a box in front of her with no lid, which seems to hold a . . .
Cheating, and moving on
Yesterday, I was at a party and talking to a hot British guy who'd moved to L.A. five years ago. (Hey, I'm know I'm married but I can still appreciate a nice looking guy.) Anyway, we got to talking about his social life after I mentioned that I write about dating. He had a lot to say about the women . . .
True love at any age…
I've never believed time limits us. I'm a late bloomer, and have been all my life. I don't see that changing, nor do I want it to. I like taking my time and figuring things out instead of rushing into something out of fear. I like learning, and I like the search for things or people who are . . .
