A couple of friends recently told me they were smitten with their new guys. They'd only been out on a couple of dates, but things seemed to be going so well. Then a few days went by and I found out that the relationships had already fizzled. For various reasons. My heart sank. I knew this feeling . . .
Do women want financial security most of all?
I was thinking about gold-diggers the other day. What comes to mind are women who spend their days at the spa and leave child-rearing and careers to nannies and husbands. I have little patience and respect for these women. But is there another form of gold-digging that's not so obvious? I know . . .
Fear vs. freedom
I wrote this piece about my first paragliding adventure for a website called SingleMindedWomen, which you should check out if you have a chance. I was originally hoping to make the story about independence and the excitement of solo travel, but it ended up being about something else: letting go of . . .
On being a new stepmom
Although I feel like more of an expert in the area of dating, I want to start sharing more about my new life/ role as a stepmom in my blog. Rest assured all of you single men and women out there...being in a relationship doesn't make your challenges go away. In life, there are no endings. Just new . . .
After a break-up, try taking your time
There's no good way to spin it: break-ups suck. Whether you are doing the splitting or your SO calls it quits, the feeling of loss, anger and pain is the same. But you can't get through it without sitting with your pain. Yes, I said it. You have to sit with the pain. There are no short-cuts. I . . .
Me..a grown-up? I don’t think so.
In the last couple of months, I've found myself feeling so old. I never used to feel old. Sure I'd make fun of the fact that I was "past my prime", but really, I feel like I'm just getting started. The first 30+ years were just a warm-up. It took me this long to figure out what I was doing. Miley . . .
