By now many of us have seen the viral article from the New York Times - "Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person." The title is misleading IMHO, considering the nuance and depth the writer has to address a really important challenge of long-term relationships. It's not that relationships - marriage . . .
Dating a man with kids
As many of you know, I married a man who came with two daughters and an ex wife. It's not something you dream about when you're little - inheriting a whole family along with your husband - but it's a reality for many people out there. (The divorce rate is 50% after all...) And still I struggle with . . .
Do you have Tinder burnout? Maybe you should slow down.
I'm a big online dating advocate. You can join a dozen apps at once like Tinder, Happn, Hinge and Coffee Meets Bagel - it's an online dating buffet! And it's so much easier than before. Instead of creating a detailed profile or conducting a photo shoot, you can just link to your Instagram page, and . . .
How long does it take to fall in love?
Sometimes we all need a refresher course in love. Especially with online dating. It's just so f***ing frustrating sometimes. I hear the constant rumblings of those in the trenches: Why can't I just meet someone normal, have great chemistry, and then fall in love? What's with all the mind games, . . .
New thoughts for a new year
Ok, I'll say it. I have a few New Year's resolutions. I like this time of year, because it's a chance to look back on the past and wipe the slate clean to start again. Maybe I've been reading too many books on mindfulness and meditation, but it's a good time to set an intention and make a change. . . .
Dating in L.A. and other impossible things
Hi all, I'm excited to report that my article is included in the dating issue of Focus Magazine, a local L.A. pub that has the latest in what's going on in L.A. and why you should care. It's a great read, and sold in many favorite spots around the city (including pilates studios and coffee . . .