As some of you read, recent blogs by Dr. Alex Benzer and Jag Carrao on the Huffington Post really annoyed me. They are basically reintroducing and rehashing "The Rules", which to me put us back in the dating dark ages of manipulation, game-playing and deception. Oh wait, that's still going on now. . . .
“The Rules” revisited? Please say it isn’t so…
Ok, I won't try to be polite about a post I saw on the Huffington Post by Dr. Alex Benzer (where did he get his degree?). I have read a lot of dating books, and most are pretty typical as far as "advice" goes. We're all doing things wrong, and that's why we remain single. I get it, respect it, . . .
Are you unapproachable?
As a former hostess of speed dating events, I've had the pleasure of talking with a lot of daters over the years. One issue that I see cropping up time and time again is a very basic one: how to approach and how to be approachable. A lot of guys feel that women make themselves unapproachable . . .
Online dating, why should I try you again?
It's a new year, and let's face it. The resolution thing has lost its luster. In 2009, we went without a lot of things because of the economy, and now we're tired of sacrifice. What's interesting is that people are still hopeful about finding love. I keep reading articles that point this . . .
Tick, tock…
I've been filled with inexplicable anxiety since the start of the new year. My life is not exactly where I want it to be, but I'm not sure what to do to get there. Whatever that means. It's the journey, not the destination...right? Although my head keeps telling me I'm getting older and pretty . . .
Another holiday party to attend alone? That could be a good thing.
We're in the midst of the holiday season---mistletoe, drinking, and loads of parties that frankly some of us would rather avoid. Sure, the thought of going solo to a Christmas or new year's party may be cause for panic, but it provides the best opportunity to meet new people and find yourself a . . .
