I want to talk about something that strikes a nerve when the subject of dating comes up. Money. You might wince a little at the word, especially if you've struggled with money at any point in your life. I remember when I was 22, standing in line at the grocery store, choosing between a $1.99 bottle . . .
Feeling aimless? Here’s why it’s a good thing.
I spent most of my twenties living by a process of elimination. I didn't know what kind of career I wanted so I hopped from job to job, whittling down those careers I didn't want in the hopes that this process would make it easier to figure out what I did want. I had no desire to get married and . . .
Happy 4th – and summer dating!
If you are sick of meeting your Tinder and OkCupid matches at the local bar, and you can't stand the thought of yet another cup of coffee with yet another total stranger you are trying to impress, or at least hook up with - maybe it's time to try something else and see if it perks up your social . . .
Ghosting and the “unofficial” relationship
I'm kind of over bad manners. I mean, I'm not prissy (though I am from the South), but since when has it been okay to have no respect for other peoples' feelings, especially people you date - oh sorry, I mean "hang out with"? I'm talking about the non-relationship relationships we have when we . . .
How long does it take to fall in love?
Sometimes we all need a refresher course in love. Especially with online dating. It's just so f***ing frustrating sometimes. I hear the constant rumblings of those in the trenches: Why can't I just meet someone normal, have great chemistry, and then fall in love? What's with all the mind games, . . .
New thoughts for a new year
Ok, I'll say it. I have a few New Year's resolutions. I like this time of year, because it's a chance to look back on the past and wipe the slate clean to start again. Maybe I've been reading too many books on mindfulness and meditation, but it's a good time to set an intention and make a change. . . .
