You heard it here first. Ok, no you didn't. Likely first on OkCupid, because they just came out with another study. This time it's about the best day of the week to get some action. They call it the "sexual availability index." Brace yourself, cuz it's not Friday or Saturday...(sorry if you had . . .
Do age differences matter?
A reader recently shared her conflicted feelings about dating an older man: I’ve been dating a guy that is 20 years older than me. I’m 28. I never saw myself being with someone so much older but since I’ve met him, I’ve never been happier. Older men are not always looking for a younger women . . .
IRL (real life, I mean)
I was inspired by a post from the insightful Jeffrey Platts, who seems to always tap into those challenges in life that I'd rather not admit to or deal with. Like the fact that I compare myself to my colleagues and friends, especially when I'm online...what they are doing/ saying on Facebook and . . .
Has your boyfriend or girlfriend tried to change you?
I can be a very impressionable person...I know this about myself after all of these years. So I am thankful I've never been in a relationship with a guy who tried to change me. Change my appearance, that is. My guest post for today's Woman's POV section over at BadOnlineDates deals with this . . .
How will you destroy your relationship?
Don't worry, this post is not as ominous as it sounds... I was talking to a friend last week who's a relationship therapist. One of the first requests he'll make of his coupled clients is: "I want each of you to list all the ways in which you will destroy your relationship with each . . .
There’s a reason you broke up…
I got an email recently from a young woman asking me whether or not she should get back together with her ex-boyfriend. Back story: They'd broken up and reunited a couple of times already. He dated her best friend in between relationships. Her family doesn't like him. She really loves him, but she . . .